My boyfriend is japanese and we working at same company but different department(we don’t meet everyday). On early dec, his father suddenly passed away and it really been hard on him. He need to manage all the document and take care of his mother. His mother had mental breakdown and had been unwell since her husband passed.
There are few things i had done
1. Making lunch box for him(after third day, he ask me to stop bring his lunch because he afraid of being burden)
2.calling him but the frequency had been reduced drastically since he always buzy with funeral preparations/ family matter.
3.don’t ask for any date or meeting. I told him i will accept if he initiate.
What can i do more? I worry about his mental health . One of the regrets that he has is not having chance to introduce me to his father. He still talk about it.