Hear me out on this one. I don’t want to do it because I have an Asian fetish. I am not doing it because I want to settle down with a man who is financially stable. I am doing a High paying job already and willing to raise kids as well.
I came to Japan 6 months ago to escape my toxic family. I come from a small town in India and did everything in my power to leave the toxic and sexist environment at home. Now I am 23 and my parents are forcing me to get married. If I get married to an Indian man, it’s over. I would be forced to marry a guy of my parents choice and stay in India, as a domestic slave to his family.
I am desperate to get a Permanent Residence in Japan and marrying a Japanese guy would be the easiest way. I don’t have high standards, since I am earning well i don’t mind if the guy earns lesser than me.
I won’t tolerate an abusive guy or a guy who has a loose character.
Am I wrong to take an easy way out through marriage? Please be gentle.
by Spiritual_Necessary8