How to do Proxy Marriage with a Japanese National? For the purpose of getting spouse visa afterwards rather than tourist > marry > convert to spouse (From Philippines)

So basically what me and my fiance is planning is that my fiance will do the proxy marriage for us for me to get spouse visa for me to actually live in Japan, rather than tourist > marry > convert to spouse but I couldn't exactly get the information for the requirements that I'll be needing so if anyone had a similar experience please say so.

24 and 26 years old (idk if that matters?)
Have met up in Philippines (I can also send my documents to japan but not sure how, though I can give my fiance the docs in person when we met again)

fiance can't speak english, but I can speak japanese, I assume it doesn't matter since we can use translation service for the docs?

Thanks for any help!