My (F24) husband (30) has a history of lying.
He’s very particular about his phone and my paranoid thoughts and history of trauma with him about lying (about talking to women) made me end up checking his phone tonight.
I found a message he sent to a woman on LINE, which had no prior messages or history sent at 8:04am June 13, on a Monday. It said “起きてます?”
She replied three minutes later with “寝ぼけて宛先自分にしてます、、笑
ありがとうございます🫣笑”
Not sure if you can see the emoji, it’s an emoji with it’s hands over it’s face and peeking through it’s fingers.
I understand the literal japanese here, but I’m not good with reading between the lines. What would you guys think this is about?
That Sunday night he came home at 9pm, sometimes he studies at Starbucks after work. He came home then we went to bed. I don’t think he has the willpower to even wake himself up from sleep and go out or pretend to sleep without actually falling asleep but he does often wake up at 5:50am for 8am/8:40am work.
I’m really concerned. And the way that he reacts about his phone, if I told him I checked and found this , he might actually threaten me with divorce without talking about the issue
I’m sorry but I know it’s wrong to check his phone… I just wish he wasn’t a liar 🙁
2 comments
He’s cheating.
Cheat.
Weigh what you want. Do you want to stay in japan? Do you have pr or can get a visa without him? If no to that take advice I wish I kept myself and keep your yap shut until you get the pr.
Submit 離婚不受理申出書. Be smart about this. Don’t fuck it up like I did and let him know you know.