My username was randomly generated and I assure you it is **not** related.
A couple of months ago I met a woman online. I’ll call her Emi. Our talks got pretty heated and went in a direction that told me she was looking for some adult fun. I told Emi about my personal situation where I wasn’t looking for a girlfriend or anything like that, but enjoyed meeting new people and wanted to have lunch with her.
Well, long story short, we actually reserved a hotel for day use before even meeting up. We met at lunch and hit it off well, then headed over to the hotel to have sex.
Yes, I used protection.
Anywho, Emi has been sending me Line messages every now and again asking to see me, and I’m not really up for it. To be completely honest when I met her first I was cool with meeting up occasionally, but due to person circumstances I’m no longer really in the right headplace. I told her as much in a recent message, and she was understanding. She asked me to hit her up again if anything changed.
Well, a few weeks later Emi messaged me out of the blue and the preview in Line really spelled it out: tons of crying emojis and claims about being pregnant. I read her message and she told me she didn’t have money for the abortion, asking for 60,000 yen.
Like, let’s get one thing clear: I didn’t even finish in the condom. I finished in her mouth, and a quick search on Quora indicates that you can’t get pregnant that way. She would have had to spit in her hand and perform a DIY IVF implantation. If she is pregnant, the odds that it’s mine are astronomically low.
I’m wondering if she has any real recourse here, or if it’s safe to block her. I feel bad for her, but she’s essentially trying to rob me of 60,000 yen so it’s not like I’m being crushed with guilt.
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>Like, let’s get one thing clear: I didn’t even finish in the condom. I finished in her mouth, and a quick search on Quora indicates that you can’t get pregnant that way.
You had to look that up?
Just tell her that you used a condom, and you put the baby batter in the sink not the oven anyway. Either she’s not actually pregnant, or if she is you know it’s not yours. If she doesn’t back off from here, then block her.
Just block her.
bro, did you skip bio class? 😂😂😂😂😂 just fucking block her and brush up on grade 9 science
Why did you have to google that lmao
There isn’t a part of this story that isn’t depressing.
Is this an ad?
If there’s something strange in the neighborhood
She still could be pregnant. Just not with your child.
Say you’re happy to pay but if you are paying insist on going with her and then when there is nothing to abort get your money back
How is babby formed? How girl get pragnent?
“Congratulations on becoming a mother and father! All the best”
Block.
But judging by your post, you seem the type to tell a girl you’ve just met where you work and your social media info.
So best of luck to you too
Offer to personally take her to a clinic for a procedure. See if she responds. If she refuses, block her.
Now *this*, thisssssss is why we keep *coming* back to Japanlife sub.
You should’ve gone with Yumiko-san bro!
Eri-chan was waaaaay too clingy as you’ve found out the hard way.
ComprehensiveLove LOL!! New name for my chain of love hotels I’m gonna open up.
Oldest trick in the book, pays at least for a month’s rent, and utilities.
Think for a second. If she obliged to a rendez-vous with you on the first day, what’s to stop her from doing so with another person?
Again, maybe that person was allowed to do it without the raincoat.
You weren’t feeling her again because she wasn’t that pretty in-person. Gotta thank those youth cam pic apps.
Block, and move on! Better yet, delete LINE account, you will totally disappear from her life.
Well scientifically speaking, she could get pregnant through precum leaked by the condom. A condom doesn’t mean 100% prevention and not cumming inside her doesn’t mean sperm didn’t enter her vagina
Well the probability are extremely low, but Rng is fair towards everyone.
Still before anything done further, can’t you ask a DNA test to prove you are the father or not? If she had a ons with you she might had ons with other people after all
Just say “Hey Emi, I say this with no judgement, but you may be confusing me with someone else you had sex with. If you recall, I “let my people go” in your mouth, so it is physically impossible that I am the culprit here. You may want to contact whoever else you’re sexually active with.”
No need to be rude or ghost at this point. If she insists it’s you with no evidence, THEN you have a higher likelihood that she’s lying, and can say “look, since I 100% know this isn’t a result of me, I’ll have to assume you’re trying to take money from me and will block you. Sorry.”
Idk, sound fishy. Could be some other dude baby. Regardless I would say ignore her.
Tell her you came in her mouth and it’s not possible that it’s yours. She’ll have to go through the rest of her roledex.
>I finished in her mouth
On the first date on top of that. What a Chad.
Did she say specifically that she was praegnent to you, or just praegnat in general.
Remind her gently that you let your sailors ahoy in her mouth and that she may want to inquire with Marco from Brazil instead.
Ignore her!
As someone else said , recommend to go together .
Does she know where you live or work? What are the chances of ever bumping into her again? If she doesn’t and there is virtually no chance of ever meeting her in your daily life, then simply block her.
Demand to go to a clinic and get a prenatal paternity test. If it’s yours, then worry about it. If it’s not, sucks to suck.
Next time make sure you go via the back door.
Dude, WTF. What’s her LINE ID?
I keep coming back to this sub just for these stories. Goddamn, I love it
Say you’re infertile and watch her lose her mind.
Also your name is too good
Some of the responses here just have me laughing, good show.