I’ve been looking for how to say I’m a dom looking for a sub for casual fun on my Japanese dating profile.
I’m a straight male. I keep turning up “tachi” and “neko”, or “seme” and “uke”, but these seem to be pretty exclusive to the gay community.
What are the equivalent terms for straight/heterosexual interactions?
Additional question – it seems “yarimoku” is the term for “casual fun”. Is “yarimoku boshu” (やり目募集) the right way to say that?
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やる is a common word for sex so ヤリ目 from 目的 is like saying “I’m specifically looking for a sex partner and not a relationship”
Personally I think ヤリ目募集 sounds a bit weird, since it goes a bit along the lines of “applications open to be my f*** buddy” instead of “looking for a casual fun relationship”
Not sure how I’d word it better though
Lmao
Wait this isn’t [r/languagelearningjerk](https://www.reddit.com/r/languagelearningjerk)
I think the terms are literally
ドS
ドM
But not sure.
As for looking for casual sex, good luck but セフレ and ヤリ目 might be useful
Now I see why the mods wanted to approve NSFW posts before posting.