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Help how do I hit on Japanese guys on tinder

With western men usually I send them a goofy emoji and just tell them they’re cute or whatever .

But idk if it’s a turn off for Japanese men for me to be like “ur so cute”.

I don’t want to just say hi bc that’s so boring too.

Also are bikini photos okay on Japanese tinder ?

7 comments

  2. Every man is a unique individual who will see, understand and react to your message differently.

    There is no strategy guide for these kinds of things. Just be the authentic you.

  3. In America I’d just hit em with the burger emoji

    Since you’re in Japan, hit em with the sushi emoji

    >!/s Just talk to them!<

  4. Not a Japanese guy, I still think it’s absolutely weird if I get told “ur so cute”. Appreciate it but if you’re actively talking to me, then I already know you think I’m attractive.

    Men from anywhere will appreciate a half-decent conversation that will lead to exchanging Line after a few messages, and a short simple first date (walk, coffee/tea) shortly thereafter. You can ask about a place in their pictures, or anything they mention on their profile. If they like what they see on your profile, trust me, they will keep talking to you.

    Bikini photos – if you’re confident, why not? If a guy won’t date you because you have a bikini photo up, you likely don’t want to date that guy anyway.

  5. Are you serious coming to reddit, especially this subreddit for dating advice? Not it girl

  6. You could try commenting on something they have written in their profile, or shared a picture of on their profile. Best not to overthink it.

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