This has happened to me more often than not with girls with quite different personality, and even after having sex both before and after the 告白.
Does it get better? Once we had sex I always thought “no more barriers” but hasn’t happened much to me in Japan, even after having sex several times.
Does it eventually get better or even married couples have the same treatment?
EDIT: Forgot to mention that I was just checking with a couple of friends that had similar experiences, hence asking here to get a better and bigger sample size. Happy to see that it is not always the case (D’oh) but still. I guess people are simply more shy here.
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That’s very oddly specific
Because she’s shy.
This isn’t a “Japanese girls” thing.
I don’t know. I have heard some women won’t even let their husbands know what they look like without make up but this has probably changed in recent years
You are taking a human nature issue and making it about Japan, because you are in Japan.
As they say, every country has assholes, and every country has people who don’t get changed in front of their sex partner.
I mean I still hide when I’m changing if I got a teenis going on. No one wants to see a teenis.
“partners”
The lad met 2 girls with that behavior, now he’s generalizing it
Lol my japanese fiancé farts in front of me and does many more ‘weird’ things
Obviously she changes in front of me as well
She’s like a bro, but my fiancé 😂
Not my experience
>Once we had sex I always thought “no more barriers” but hasn’t happened much to me in Japan, even after having sex several times.
Hey everyone, this guy’s had sex several times! Some of them with other people!
People can get away with asking the weirdest questions on this sub
Maybe you are attracted by prude girls?
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This just in, High flying crypto weeb moves to Japan to finally lose virginity, more on this on the news at 9pm.
Next up, it’s hot in July!
my ex was like that but my wife is very open, even if the curtains are open she doesn’t give a shit. She gets changed outside the bathroom but if she wants a drink, she’ll walk to the fridge naked and just pour one.
do your mom change in front of you
Doesn’t happen to me
Can we please start auto removing the “why do Japanese people” threads at this fucking point
After bustin’ a nut, I am more high on life or tired to notice what she is doing with her clothes lol
One idea to break down barriers is to buy some lingerie and ask your cute Japanese lady friend to change into it in front of you… it’s really fun to watch!
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Had a JP that did, had one that didn’t.
Had a Mexican girl that did, had a Czech one that didn’t.
Just how some ppl are. Not a Japanese thing.
Even people comfortable with nudity should be aware that getting undressed can lead to some very awkward poses.
Think about what a girl would see when you are removing your pants in front of her.
As you bend frontward to remove it, she’d see your hairy asshole in all its glory, possibly with some breakfast leftovers and your sweaty ballsack hanging in the shadow of your body.
Do you want to inflict that to anyone?
Undressing is just not sexy and some girls simply don’t want to show that to their partner, no need to overthink it or make it about Japan.
My wife’s the same. I sneak a peak from time to time just to mess with her.
Some of my exes, who were kikokushijo, didn’t mind so much. It is what it is.
Everyone is different. One girl even started doing yoga in front of me after we did it, fully naked. She mentioned that she does yoga and I said “oh really?” And then she started showing me her moves.
Doesn’t mean that other japanese girls will do naked yoga in front of you..
Just because you’ve had sex doesn’t mean you’ve got free reign to see someone naked whenever and wherever.