So here is the deal:
I recently met a girl with whom i had a few dates with and its looking pretty good!
Now i want to be prepared and save incase we getting further…
I bought a couple of condoms but the thing is im a virgin so i dont have much experience with those things and when i went to the drug store i was modest and bought normal sized ones…
Now these didnt even fit half way and completely cut off my blood flow! Ashamed i went to the store again and bought a pack of Large ones buuut they still only fit half way and are waaay to tight
Honestly at this point i feel like a complete idiot…
Is there a special technique to put them on? Are japanese condoms just way smaller then in europe?
Im to ashamed to go to the fucking store again and buy XL ones and i also dont want to waste anymore money!
Please let me know if im just retarded or whats the deal with them 🙏
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just let her peg you
To be honest, there are many videos on YouTube to learn from. But from what I can say is that xl is good enough. A normal condom fits around an arm! And I don’t think your Weener is bigger than an adult man’s arm 🙂
Also, see it from a positive side, a little blood to be cut off makes you last longer 😉
First of all, congrats on your progress!
I can’t confirm if they’re smaller or not, and I don’t mean to perpetuate any stereotypes, but in my experiences yes they’re a bit smaller than what I used back home.
Actually, just last week I had my very first experience in a “rest hotel.” I tried to use the complimentary condoms they offered but Jesus Christ they were way too tight and uncomfortable. Kinda felt like getting strangled down there lol.
You’ll be ok. I’m fairly large and can get by with normal sized condoms in an emergency. They didn’t fit at first and would slide off during intercourse but one fateful day I just unrolled it until it went to the base, and surprise, although tight it was no problem
I once read/watched a YouTube video (can’t remember) but the theory was Japanese condom sizes were created in the 70’s (or before) and haven’t changed.
But what has changed is the diets of Japanese people and now Japanese e people are taller and overall bigger than people from decades ago, however Japanese condom sizes are still based on those from years ago.
They seem to be a bit smaller here, but also thinner and with less lubrication, making them a bit harder to put on compared to the US at least. I think the tight fit and thinness is a selling point here, but don’t be afraid to buy the ones with a picture of a horse on them if that’s what you need to feel comfortable.
You should be fine, but if you are having issues they tend to have bigger sizes at sex specialty stores or even don quixote, if I remember correctly.
You could also buy a cucumber or banana and practice putting it on those for practice.
Make sure you get it right though.
Not putting it on correctly leads to accidents that you don’t want. Broken condoms, slippage, etc
Not fitting halfway makes me wonder if you’re rolling them on the wrong side out. Check the reservoir tip.
Go buy larger condoms I promise the cashier doesn’t care. Whatever you do don’t use this slight inconvenience/embarrassment as an excuse to go bareback.
I’ll say that one more time for the folks in the cheap seats: Do Not Go Bareback.
Even if the woman says it’s ok. Even if all your friends say it’s ok. Even if you’re sainted grandmother say it’s ok. Wear a condom.
Long before the deed try masturbating while wearing a condom to get used to the feel of it.
Get “Okamoto Mega Big Boy” + lube
Buy the Big Boy ones, with the horse on the package.
Hey, don’t be embarrassed about this shit… it can be off putting to have to figure it out. I know I wasn’t comfortable going to the shop buying my first box out here (which were wrong for me anyways) after having a comfortable option back home that wasn’t available.
Also don’t feel about the ones you bought not fitting… some men are growers, some showers… There’s spaghetti, There’s sausage, and there’s Japanese Mini Carrots….. All brands are made to accommodate particular sizes comfortably and you just need to buy a few, take em home and give em a wank.
I mean fuck, when in your life do you actually have a completely legitimate reason to have homework of “go to porn shop, buy shit, bring home, wank, repeatedly.”
Japanese condoms are smaller than state size, I don’t have a massive dong by any means, but I have to buy the jumbo size in Japan.
They’re definitely smaller girth-wise than what I was used to in the homeland. Other than that a lot more comfortable though IMO.
Try Skyn Large. Good luck getting your cherry popped.
I had the same problem, just buy the biggest version.
You can check Amazon too.👍